New Year, New Blog
In years past, Locker Soccer has created blogs that highlight Coach Steve’s valuable experience in hopes of passing along impactful messaging to families. We want to share our knowledge in order to help grow youth sports – the right way. This year, we would like to bring Locker Soccer Blogs back!! It gives a good preview on why we care so much about child development, especially through the sport of soccer.
BLOG #1: Coaching Is Overrated (Why 3 versus 3 is so Valuable)
Off season training needn’t be all that formal. Give the kids a ball & let them figure it out on their own. Pick up soccer doesn’t seem to get the credit that it deserves. All top level players around the world have benefited tremendously from the opportunities they had as a child to simply play without adult influences. One of our challenges in today’s culture is finding the right environment that allows kids to play in a “pick-up” fashion. Years ago, we created our 3v3 program to help replicate the type of pick-up soccer that we got to enjoy as kids. In our version of pick-up soccer (3v3), there is no pressure from adult presence to perform in a certain manner. Kids take ownership of the games & they have the wonderful opportunity to figure out all aspects of the activity. They pick teams, they make the rules & set the expectations, & they police themselves. If things don’t work out, they learn to resolve the issues on their own. By allowing this kind of environment to unfold, we are permitting our children to develop a love (passion) for playing that is unrivaled in any other format.
Years ago, we took nearly 200 children to the University of Notre Dame for a weekend visit & clinic. At dinner the night before the clinic, head coach Bobby Clark told me that he likes to start each clinic by setting up a bunch of 3v3 games & just getting the kids to play. He lamented that in most cases, kids today didn’t really know what to do when presented with this option of playing pick-up soccer. He said that usually the kids will stand around until someone actually shows them what to do. I told him that I didn’t think our kids would have an issue with playing 3v3 right out of the gates.
The next day at the clinic, Coach Bobby & his players set up about 24 fields for 3v3 play. Each field had two goals. The fields were not marked off with lines or cones, & there were no bibs to separate teams. It was an exercise to see how the children would react. As our players began to arrive for the clinic, they were instructed to find a field & start playing 3v3. The kids just jumped on any field that was open, & began playing with anyone who was free. We had little boys playing against older girls, older boys playing younger boys: it was like a free-for-all. The beautiful thing was, all of our kids just started playing as if this was something that they did everyday. In a matter of a few minutes, Coach Bobby came up to me & exclaimed how impressed he was with our kids & their unabashed love to just play. He said he had never seen a group of young kids who were capable of figuring this out on their own before. It was the perfect compliment!
BLOG #2: Decision Making (Let Them Play!)
One of the beauties of soccer is that it is truly a “players” game, with coaching from the sidelines forbidden. Unfortunately at the youth level, this rule is never enforced. Unlike most of our sports though, soccer has very few stoppages, and this allows for players to make their own decisions during the flow of the game. Because of the environment that exists in soccer, it really is a wonderful avenue through which to develop children.
In a typical game, there is lots of running (fitness), change of direction and change of pace (agility and athleticism), decision making, risk taking, ball skill development, vision and spatial awareness, fakes and scheming, teamwork, and most importantly – fun! Kids can experience the ups and downs of sports in so many ways, and this is an excellent environment to learn how to deal with these challenges in a positive manner.
One of the best methods for developing good soccer players is to play “pick-up” soccer with friends. In this environment kids often play with children of varying ages, they play uninhibited because parents are usually not around to yell instructions and set demands, and they get to “own” the game on their terms.
At a past soccer tournament, I heard countless coaches directing their players non-stop. It was truly annoying. As I sat and quietly watched my team play on their own, I was complimented by many referees, field marshals, and opposing parents for my quiet demeanor. It didn’t hurt that our girls were able to relax and play some really beautiful soccer….on their terms. They were the champions of the weekend in every category!
All of us as parents would love for our children to grow up and be good decision makers. If we can have the patience and the fortitude to allow the process to work in youth sports, stop all of the screaming and yelling, our kids now have a better chance of learning these very important decision making skills.
Enjoy the games!